I totally agree with you. I just had a friendd who doens't want to to be my friend anymore because I didin't reply on her terms. No, I was making my radio programme at that moment she asked about it. I already replied earlier in the month that I just reply whenever I have the time with three children, husband and my writing work.
I have just a low energy level. I think a lot of people don't understand that. People say that I am selfish, but I am the most caring person, but to give my boundaries and also make time for myself, doens't seem the norm anymore.
Thank you for this great read!